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Dear Men In Recovery...
Dear men in “recovery”, Listen closely. Your motivation has to come from inside YOU. A deep, sickened, repulsion towards whatever it is...
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When You're Stuck in the Sex Avoidance Cycle
I thought I had a problem. I thought I needed sex therapy. I had loads of guilt. I put immense pressure on myself to “power through”....
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10 Ways You Become a REAL Man
Today I was thinking about this guy to the right...(Jim) and I'm so proud of the man he is. And that got me thinking...what makes him...
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I Doubted God
Betrayal Trauma makes you doubt. EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. You may feel anger towards yourself and those who harmed you, so you doubt...
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Betrayed Spouse: You're an Ass. I'll tell you how.
I admit it. I love a good ass. If you are going to stick around and read more of this article, then I need you to switch off the way...
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Why a Polygraph?
When first hearing about asking your spouse to take a polygraph, it can cause an entire cascade of emotions. Initially, one may minimize...
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Sex Abuse in Marriage: When lines get crossed
This part of sex addiction literally makes me come UNDONE. I've heard too many stories, talked to too many women, read too many...
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Sex Addict: Do you want to get well?
John 5:6: "When Jesus saw him lying there and learned that he had been in this condition for a long time, he asked him, “Do you want to...
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Pile of Crap or Pile of Promise?
Yesterday I went out into our pasture to feed our horse some hay. I found myself hopping over pile after pile of horse manure, being...
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Lessons from the Butt of a Horse
Several weeks ago, we added a horse to our farm for the first time. We've had goats, chickens, rabbits, ducks, guinea pigs and even a...
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Butterfly Beauty
Does the life cycle of a butterfly resonate with you? Can you envision the healthier you? What does she look like? Can you describe her...
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13 Forms of Domestic Abuse
If you are interested in educating yourself about sex addiction and the harmful impact it has had on the spouse, I highly recommend...
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Bortie the Sea Turtle
Once upon a time, on a beautiful, warm beach in the tropics of Costa Rica, a small courageous sea turtle was born. From the moment she...
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The Tale of the Snake and the Toad
A parable of sexual betrayal and the church
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My Son Built Me Out Of Lego's
When It Comes To Our Kids, Honesty Always Wins
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Finding Peace In The Hard
How Remembering God's Faithfulness Helps Change Our Focus
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